May
15

The End of Youth Ministry

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OK I know that sounds a little dramatic.  Let me start Micro and move towards Meta.  I also really want your input, so this is a conversation starter.  Here it goes: Well for about two weeks now I have become the acting Children’s Ministry Director at the Church where I am doing Interim Youth Ministry.…
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Apr
17

I want more texting during my lesson!

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Students are going to text while you speak no matter what you say or how many texting spies you place in the audience. Why not use this evil distraction for good? That’s where Poll Everywhere comes in. It’s a really simple process. You don’t even have to sign up to try it out. You put…
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Apr
10

Time for the H Word

Is Hell real?

“So, youth, what do you want to learn about?”  “Revelation, angels, and Satan?  Where do we go when we die?  Okay, sure, we could do that.  Oh wait, look at that shiny thing over there!’ I must confess something I am not very proud of — For years, I have been a professional controversy avoider.…
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Apr
04

Ultimate Nerf Wars

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Looking for a proven successful youth ministry event idea to kick off your summer?  Try this: Ultimate Nerf Wars. What you need: Tables, anything camouflage, tarps, bandannas in two colors (1 per person), score sheets, pens, Sharpies, glow-in-the-dark bracelets/necklaces, medals or prizes (optional) Bullet buckets to gather up bullets for reloading.  Lots of volunteers. What people…
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Mar
27

God Created Rebels (or Why Kony 2012 Works)

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Your phone rings right after the youth event is over.  It’s a mom.  She reads to you from the same script again, “My son/daughter is making everything so hard.  We’ve been arguing non-stop, and today I found out that he/she has been smoking/drinking/sneaking out/insert rebellious action here.”  You console; you offer reassurances, but the bottom…
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Mar
13

The War on Stopping Kony

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I don’t remember where I first saw the KONY2012 video posted, but within a few minutes it had popped up a dozen places in my social media feeds so it doesn’t really matter which was first. I’ve been ignoring Invisible Children for years. Not intentionally; my only point of contact with them was the stack…
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Mar
06

3 Ways to Make Your Youth Ministry Matter

How does your ministry stack up?

I’ve been told by well-intentioned youth and parents, “I  will be at UMY if there is nothing on my  schedule.”  Really?  Is that supposed to make me feel better?  You’ll be at UMY if you have absolutely nothing better to do?  Thanks…I think. We all experience it. Every week thousands of members of youth groups…
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Feb
28

Youth Disciple Online Facilitator Training

Bishop Richard and Julia Wilke, Steve Wilke and Charles Harrison meet to launch Youth Disciple Online opportunity

Starting in August 2012 Disciple Bible Study for Youth will be available on-line for Youthworkers to use with a group of High School Youth in their Church, District, Conference, Region, Community as well as there being groups that any individual Youth from anywhere in the world can sign up for. We need facilitators for every…
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Feb
28

6 Critical Questions Parents & Teens Should Ask Today

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As a former teacher-turned-youth director, I can attest to the power of sharing ideas among trusted co-workers. Why re-invent the wheel when you can “steal” great ideas from others and apply them to your own situation?  I had the opportunity to do just that recently when I sought ways to improve communication between my high…
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Feb
21

Seeing Poverty First Hand Changed My Life

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If you are one of the hundreds of youth workers leading a 30 Hour Famine event this weekend, you might want to know how to encourage your youth to take their fundraising and experience to the Study Tour level.  Abby Lewis, a high school junior and member of the youth group at St. Barnabas United…
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Feb
14

$199 Summer Mission Trip in Dallas @ C2K

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Looking for a GREAT summer Mission trip in the Dallas, Texas area?  Check out www.c2kDallas.org Register before April 1, 2012 and enjoy an all-inclusive mission trip for just $199 per person (if paid in full and on-time) and spend more time with your Youth and less having to plan and run the daily grind of mission…
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Feb
08

Conversion Aversion Disorder

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As Youthworkers, have we really thought about the implications of Conversion?  Have we considered Conversion God’s work?  Have we tried to take God’s place to manipulate young people?  Do we even have a plan for what comes next the day after Conversion? “To have a conversion experience is nothing much.  The real thing is to…
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Feb
01

5 Quick and Easy Youth Games for your Super Bowl party

  TV screens are ready to go…check. The pizza has been ordered…check. The boys know to bring soda, chips and dips, the girls know to bring desserts, cups and paper plates…check. Now let’s plan the entertainment for the big youth group party this weekend.  Here are five tried-and-true games to have on hand this Sunday…
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Jan
24

when bad things happen to good dogs

Waiting for the Dog

I’m having a hellish month of scheduling, which means I’m not able to process life events in real time. For example, last Monday I got to spend breakfast explaining to my 4 & 6 year old boys how mommy was going to go to the doctor because some stuff was broken inside. They needed to…
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Jan
24

5 Ways Science Affects Youth Ministry

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It’s the age old argument.  Science vs. Faith. Like most things in life, Star Wars might offer some insight. In A New Hope, even Obi-Wan has trouble convincing Han Solo of the realities of the Force, a mysterious energy that is said to ‘bind all things together’.  Han-Solo inadvertently articulates a scientific worldview by saying,…
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